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The guest had a right to expect certain attentions (Ll£ 7"ff). The practice of hospitality distinguished those on the right from those on the left hand (Mt 25"; of. 10*", Jn 1321). It Is commended by precept (Ro 1213- 20, 1 Ti 32 etc.), and also by example (He 13^).

HospitaUty was highly esteemed amongst other ancient peoples. In Egypt its practice was thought to favour the soul in the future life. By kindness to strangers the Greelss secured the approval of Zeus-Xenios, their protector. For the Romans hospitaUty was a sacred obUgation.

In its simplest eispect, hospitality is the reception of the wayfarer as an honoured guest, providing shelter and food. In the ancient, as indeed for the most part in the modern, Orient, men journey only under necessity. Travel for purposes of pleasure and education is practi-cally unknown. Save in cities, therefore, and in trading centres along the great highways, there was Uttle caU for places of pubUc entertainment. Villages probably always contained what is called the medafeh properly madyafah a chamber reserved for guests, whose entertainment is a charge upon the whole community. From personal experience the present writer knows how solicitous the humblest villagers are tor the comfort and well-being of their guests. If the chief man in a village be weU off, he greatly adds to his prestige by a liberal display of hospitahty.

In the desert, every tent, however poor its owner, offers welcome to the traveller. In the master's absence the women receive the guests, and according to their means do the honours of the 'house of hair.' It is the master's pride to be known as a generous man; any lack of civility or of kindness to a guest meets severe reprobation. In the guest's presence he calls neither his tent, nor anything it contains, his own. During his sojourn the visitor is owner. The women bake bread; the master slays a 'sacrifice,' usually a lamb, kid, or sheep, which is forthwith dressed, cooked, and served with the bread. The proud son of the wilds has high Ideas of his own dignity and honour; but he himself waits upon his guest, seeking to gratify with alacrity his every wish. If his visitors are of superior rank he stands by them (Gn 188), and in any case sits down only if they invite him. The safety and comfort of the guests are the first consideration; many place them before even the honour of wife and daughter (Gu 19', Jg 19»; cf. Lane, Mod. Egyp. 297). If a guest arrives after sunset he is entitled only to shelter, as the host might then be unable to prepare a meal creditable to himself. If food is offered, it is of the host's goodwill (Lk ll''). The guest, careful of the host's honour, will indicate that more than he requires has been provided by leaving a portion in the dish.

The open hand, as the token of a liberal heart, wins the respect and esteem of the Arabs. Leadership does not of necessity descend from father to son. Right to the position must be vindicated by wisdom, courage, dignity, and not least by generous hospitality. For the niggard in this regard there is nothing but contempt. It is a coveted distinction to be known as a 'coffee sheik,' one who without stint supplies his visitors with the fragrant beverage.

The Arabs are sometimes charged with want of gratitude; justly, as it seems from our point of view. But what seems ingratitude to us may be due simply to the Influence of immemorial custom, in a land where the necessities of life are never sold, but held as common good, of which the traveller may of right claim a share. The ' right of a guest ' may be taken. If not freely offered. The man who refuses covers himself with perpetual shame. The guest enjoys only his right; therefore no thanks mingle with his farewell.

The right, however, is Umited. ' Whoever,' says the Prophet, ' beUeves in God and the day of resurrection must respect his guest; and the time of being kind to him Is one day and one night; and the period of entertaining him is three days; and if after that he

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does It longer, he benefits him more: but it is not right for the guest to stay in the house of his host so long as to incommode him' (Lane, Arabian Society in the Middle Ages, 143). After three days, or, some say, three days and four hours, the host may ask If he proposes to honour him by a longer stay. The guest may wish to reach some point under protection of the tribe. If so, he is welcome to stay; only, the host may give him work to do. To remain while refusing to do this is highly dishonourable. But the guest may go to another tent at the expiry of every third day, thus renewing his 'right,' and sojourn with the tribe as long as is necessary.

HospitaUty involves protection as well as maintenance. ' It is a principle alike in old and new Arabia that the guest Is inviolable' (W. R. Smith, Kinshij^, 48). That this provision applies to enemies as well as to friends shows the magnanimity of the desert law. Every stranger met in the open is assumed to be an enemy: he will owe his safety either to his own prowess or to fear that his tribe will exact vengeance if he is injured. But the stranger who enters the tent is daif Vllah, the guest whom God has sent, to be well entreated for Hissake. In anenemy's country one's perils are over when he reaches a tent, and touches even a tent peg. A father's murderer may find sure asylum even in the tent of his victim's son. When he has eaten of the host's bread, the two are at once bound as brothers for mutual help and protection. It is said that ' there is salt between them.' Not that Uteral salt is required. This Is a term covering milk, and indeed food of any kind. A draught of water taken by stealth, or even against his will, from a man's dish, serves the purpose. When protection is secured from one, the whole tribe is bound by it (W. B. Smith, US' 76).

To understand this we must remember (1) that in Arabia all recogniuftnof Mutual rights andduties res tsuponkinship. Those outside the kin may be dealt with according to each man's inclination and ability. (2) Kinship is not exclusively a matter of birth. It may be acquired. When men eat and drink together, they renew their blood from the one source, and to that extent are partakers in the same blood. The stranger eating with a clansman becomes ' kinsman ' to all the members of the clan, as regards 'the fundamental rights and duties that turn on the sanctity of kindred blood ' (Wellhausen, Besle Arab. Held. 119f.; W. R. Smith, BS^ 273 n.). This sanctity may be traced to the ancient belief that the clan god shared it^ life, and when an animal was slain for food took part in the common meal. The clan's friends were therefore the god'sfriends, whom to injure was to outrage the deity. That the slaughter of the victim waa a religious act involving the whole kin is borne out (a) by the fact that when an animal is slain all have an undisputed right to come to the feast; (6) by the name dhablhah,' sacri-fice,' still applied to it. The present writer was once enter-tained in the camp of a ratner wild and unkempt tribe. His attendants supped with the crowd. Fearing this might not be agreeable to a European^ the chief's son, who pre-sided in his father's absence, with innate Arab courtesy, asked him to sup with him in the sheilc's tent. Bringing in a portion of the flesh, the youth repeatedly remarked, as if for the stranger's re-assurance, edh-dhablhah wdhideh, 'the slaughtering sacrifice is one'; i.e. the tribesmen and he ate from the same victim.

The bond thus formed was temporary, holding good for 36 hours after parting. By frequent renewal, how-ever, it might become permanent. ' There was a sworn aUiance between the Libyan and the Mostallc: they were wont to eat and drink together' (RS' 270 f.). A man may declare himself the dakhU from dakhala, ' to enter,' i.e. to claim protection of a powerful man, and thus pass under shelter of his name even before his tent Is reached. Whoever should injure him then would have to reckon with the man whose name he had invoked. The rights of sanctuary associated with temples, and until recently with certain churches, originated in an appeal to the hospitality of the local deity. The refugee's safety depended on the respect paid to the god. Joab would have been safe had he not outlawed himself In this regard (1 K 2'>«). Jael's